Ask Right Questions! Find Right Solutions!!!

Need To Ask Right Questions

When we are facing a problem, we don’t ask the right questions.

Why should we ask the right questions? Right questions will lead to right solutions. So we should learn to ask the right questions.

Ask Right Questions

There are solutions for every problem. However, we don’t know the solution for the problem that we are facing currently. Let us say you are in conflict with your colleague. To find a resolution for the conflict, do the following:

The questions to ask are: What, Why, How and When.

1.      There is a conflict. Instead of asking, “Why this is happening to me”, ask “What do I want here?” We want peace but we are fighting though.

When you ask the question “What do I want here”, immediately the mind stops thinking. Then you will get an answer for what do I want.

2.      Second question to ask is (‘why’): “Why do I maintain this conflict? (This will reveal your own mistakes to yourself.)

3.      Now comes the ‘How’ questions: “How can I end this problem?” and “How will I get peace?”

4.      Then the ‘What’ questions: “What should I do to have peace here?” and “What should I not do to have peace here?”

You have to immediately start doing the steps required.

5.      You can also ask the question ‘when’. “Ok, I want peace. But, when do I want it?”

Then start working towards that timeline. The solution will be found then.

Please note that you don’t have to ask all the questions. The moment you get an answer, you can stop.

Please refer the following blogs to know more about ruling the mind with the help of living with awareness and finding answers to life:


Learn Reiki! Refresh Reiki!

Workshop on Reiki by Naran S. Balakumar

Content:                Reiki Level I and II, including symbols from Karuna Reiki

Date:                     03rd Oct 2009, 9.00 AM to 3.00 PM

Venue:                   New No.28, Sivaji Street, T. Nagar, Chennai – 17

Participation Fee: Rs. 1,500/-

Contact:                 Shobana – 9884301634. Please confirm before 1st Oct 2009.

If you know Reiki and would like to refresh your knowledge, please contact Shobana.

About Elsol

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 21 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on September 28, 2009, in Naran-Events, New Blogs, Reiki, RULE THE MIND and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. Dear Mr. Naran
    I am 31 year old guy from Delhi. i am happy with my family and my work. i love a girl by heart. My mother has fixed my marriage to an unknown girl and i am not able to fight with my mother. But i love that girl and cant stay happy with this girl searched by my mother. I just want to break this roka by itself so that i can marry to my own choice girl.I am very upset and my girl friend is also very much upset. Kindly tell something to chant so that this Roka broke by itself

  2. Deepak
    you have to stand firm if you want the girl of your choice. Write centaruy chicory walnut in a notebook and try to talk to your mother.
    No alternative. If you are such a timid person, why did you love and spoil the life of some girl

  3. Namaste Naran Ji,

    Myself Sandeep, I had been going through a difficult phase since my highschool days – that is a complete different story to tell. I came through your switchword guidance which landed me with a perfect contract opportunity and a better future opportunity for my son all of a sudden. Thanks a Ton for that.

    Please guide me to get the stuck parental money (my father expired 3 months back) without any harsh experience so that I could repay my debt ,and guide me on how to get the contract job converted to permanent one with name and fame and authority.

    I do not know how would I be able to return the favor but I will always be indebted.

    Thanking you in advance

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